Fellow humans, whenever you are honored with an invitation to attend an event, (especially personal ceremonies like weddings etc.) please dress up and honor the invitation alone.
If you wish to convey your family members, friends or entire community along, make it known to whoever invited you or the host out of COURTESY so that if possible, extra arrangements can be made to cater for your “extra luggage”
Another disturbing issue has to do with those who are not invited or do not have any personal relation with the host but will end up dragging along their entire generation to the event, consume every food available and fight over gifts and others… Smh!
Do not be one of such…
Imagine planning an event for 50 guests and each one you invited comes along with extra one, two or even more… you could end up with thrice or more of what you budgeted for and can AFFORD. Do you see how INCONVENIENCING that will be…?
Planning and budgeting for an event sums up to the number of guests (which includes catering, decor etc.) How will you feel if you attend an event where there’s no seat available for you and you have to stand throughout the entire occasion or get no food if you’re really hungry and need something to consume? You’ll be the same person to complain bitterly…
Aside the financial aspect of planning an event, people sometimes just desire to have certain SPECIFIC GUESTS to share their beautiful and memorable moments with, that is why you were SPECIFICALLY invited…
Other times, you may have a good or close relation with the host but you won’t be honored with an invite and that’s OK cos there could be “reasonable” excuses for that… Just RESPECT their PREFERENCE.
Bear with your inviters and hosts and factor in the SUCCESS of the occasion you’re honoring.
Just an observation and thought of sharing my 2 cents.
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